We forget that a lot of what we do is reliant on user names and passwords.
My parents are both getting up in years, and as a result, there are medical issues that happen. Life can change over night, and fortunately nothing has happened yet that warrant any "drastic action" on my part. But, as parents get older, it is important that someone in the family, be it a child or sibling or even a close trusted friend have all the information needed to make a transition as smooth as possible.
Many people will leave it to the attorney to handle the estate, but inevitably the issue of user name and/or password will pop up somewhere. Bank accounts, insurance, even utilities. You, as the relative or friend, need to sit down with your parent / senior friend and get a list of all accounts that have user names and passwords. Names of lawyers, auto mechanics, Doctors, insurance agents.... anything you can think of that may pop up. If they change the password on an account, it should be updated on the list. Ideally, if the parent or friend is not comfortable giving this information to you, they need to have it where you can get to it in case of death, coma, or any other reason that they can no longer take care of their affairs. This makes it easier to wrap up loose ends.
I know this sounds like common sense, but there are many many families out there that do not plan for the future. We don't like to talk about death, but it is waiting for all of us. Make it easier on your loved ones to cope in what will already be a mega stressful time. If you have older parents or siblings, make sure you have the information you need to get through the situation. Have a family meeting, talk about it and I promise you will all rest better for it.
Have a great day!
Post Scripts to my Book "The Self Help Book for People Who Hate Self Help Books"
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Wednesday, May 24, 2017
Monday, April 24, 2017
I am still around, I have just been busy
Hello out there in bloggerland. I am still here, I have been busy with some other stuff, including my ne Kia blog. I have been with Kia for 5 years in May, and I thought it might be a nice idea to start a blog for Kia owners with questions. it's at cashatkia.blogspot.com Check it out. I answer questions about Kia, but there is a lot pertaining to any car really.
Let's see...My son introduced me to the FOAP app. A photo sharing experience. You can sell your photos online too. Pretty cool.
I have also been gearing up for the Spring and Summer, doing stuff around the house, in the house on top of the house...never ends.
Also, I have been spending a lot of time with our new pair of 8 week old kittens. The word "NO!" is thrown around the house A LOT! They are a ton of work, but great to have cat energy in the house again. No doubt you will hear about them again.
So, I hope everyone had a great April. Summer is right around the corner. I will do a few blogs upcoming on things to do in Vegas in the Summer that don't include the words "It's frickin' hot" !! Vegas is way more than just the strip. Stay tuned. Same Bat Time, Same Bat Channel.
remember my websit... ronnieleetwist.com and hey, friend me up on Facebook facebook.com/ronnieleetwist
Have a great day!
Let's see...My son introduced me to the FOAP app. A photo sharing experience. You can sell your photos online too. Pretty cool.
I have also been gearing up for the Spring and Summer, doing stuff around the house, in the house on top of the house...never ends.
Also, I have been spending a lot of time with our new pair of 8 week old kittens. The word "NO!" is thrown around the house A LOT! They are a ton of work, but great to have cat energy in the house again. No doubt you will hear about them again.
So, I hope everyone had a great April. Summer is right around the corner. I will do a few blogs upcoming on things to do in Vegas in the Summer that don't include the words "It's frickin' hot" !! Vegas is way more than just the strip. Stay tuned. Same Bat Time, Same Bat Channel.
remember my websit... ronnieleetwist.com and hey, friend me up on Facebook facebook.com/ronnieleetwist
Have a great day!
Sunday, January 8, 2017
Remember this when you look at ALL YOUR FRIENDS on Facebook...
I am currently writing a book. I have been working on it for quite a long time, because it's the kind of thing you have to write when the mood hits you, and you have a great thread of thought...much like a blog. It's a chance you take that anyone will be interested in what you have to say. I enjoy writing, and I hope to someday E publish this book. If one person reads it and it helps them, then it was worth taking the time to do.
The book is called The Self Help Book For People Who Hate Self Help Books (c)2016.....
I have read a ton of self help books, some great, some not so...but most have one thing in common. They are written by people that have a lot of letters after their names. All good...not dissing anyone. I am writing mine from just years of observation and experience. I would like to share one of the chapters with you here, just because social media is such a thing now. We are get pulled into the Facebook Rabbit Hole. So here we go. This chapter from the book is called:
The book is called The Self Help Book For People Who Hate Self Help Books (c)2016.....
I have read a ton of self help books, some great, some not so...but most have one thing in common. They are written by people that have a lot of letters after their names. All good...not dissing anyone. I am writing mine from just years of observation and experience. I would like to share one of the chapters with you here, just because social media is such a thing now. We are get pulled into the Facebook Rabbit Hole. So here we go. This chapter from the book is called:
But
I Have 4627 Friends on Facebook
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Okay.
Take a DEEP breath. All but about 12 of these people are not your
friends. Maybe a few more or less. Go through your "Friends"
on Face Book and write down the ones you would trust your kids, Dog
or Spouse with. Who can you call as a house sitter if you have to go
out of town? Yup. Short list. Multiply all this by the number of
friends on Twitter, Voxer, Snap Chat Yadda Yadda Yadda and you still
end up with about 12. So why are you sharing you most personal stuff
with total strangers? And why do they think you really care about
what they eat every 42 minutes? It's really gotten out of hand.
Okay, so I am an entertainer. I have a couple of Face Book pages. I
think I have a total of about 2500 "Friends" between the
two pages. I perform and send invites to everyone. I figure asses in
seats means ticket sales. But, at lets say, Christmas Time, if I
want to send out a personal greeting to people on my pages, there are
only MAYBE 30 people that I feel I know well enough to invade their
personal space. And some of them are iffy. Don't let the number of
"Friends" you have in cyber space lull you into a false
sense of being all
that.
We are really not that important to anyone but ourselves. We measure
our success in terms of likes,
shares
and comments.
We have all done it. We have liked some crap on Facebook that we
didn't spend more than a 10th
of a second looking at because the person is our “Friend” and we
want all his “Friends” to see that I am his “Friend”...What a
crock. In the great scheme of things, it's meaningless. There is no
personal contact. It's an illusion that we have all these friends
that we “Connect” with when we sitting at home in our underwear
at 2 AM looking at our Facebook page because we have forgotten how to
really communicate.
When
something goes wrong and we put it on Facebook or instagram or
Twitter, whatever your social media of choice, we get responses of
condolence, prayers, advise, whatever from all these people we don't
know. But how many of them are responding because they are really
praying for you, and how many are just doing it because you had 231
other people do it and they want to feel like they are part of the
collective conscience. That's all good and well if they actually say
a prayer
for you. How many times have YOU said someone was in your prayers
and never thought about them again??
As
a sales person, I sit and hand write 5 to 10 cards a day to clients
that have bought cars from me. People I work with are astounded by
this. That someone can actually sit down, with a pen and a blank card
and envelope and write...in
your own handwriting
mind you.....a couple of sentences to another human being. It does
not involve a keyboard, an e mail address or a data plan. It's
olden days
stuff. I actually had someone ask, “What do you do? Mail it?”
It's a damned shame. It's a shame that these guys are missing out.
I get calls from these clients thanking me for taking the time...(2
minutes) out of my day to think about them. Oh, and they come in and
buy another car.
I
have all my clients in an e mail database, I have a ton of them on
Facebook, and yes it would save a lot of time and postage to just
bulk email a big “How have you been” to 400 people at the same
time. But, it's just another email. Lost in 50 others they just got.
But when someone goes out and opens the mail box and there, nestled
among the bills and junk is a bright blue envelope, with their name
and address hand written upon it, well, That's special. Someone once
said, If you can count your friends on both hands, you can count
your REAL friends on just one hand, and out of those 5, maybe two are
true friends. Be careful who you share your thoughts, loves,
fears and food pictures with. All of it will be in cyber space, uh,
FOREVER!
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Hope you got something out of that. I hope to be done with the whole thing sometime this year!
Have a Great Day!
Sunday, November 20, 2016
TO GROUP OR NOT TO GROUP...LEAVE ME OUTTA THIS
With the advent of modern technology, the chain letter was replaced by the chain email which was replaced with the chain Facebook post which has been replaced by the chain text. You know, the text where you are included with 65 other people wanting to have you reply or comment to everything from Boxer or Briefs, to political views, to saying Amen, Drinks at Bob's who's in?.... to countless situations...about this time of year you will be getting group texts about Cornbread or Rye Bread Stuffing...Merry Christmas or Happy Holidays...Turkey or Tofu...So and So is having a party, rsvp...yadda yadda yadda...
Point is, I don't mind getting a text from anyone about anything. My phone pings and I look at it, and at that point decide to respond or ignore. My bug bear is when I have to listen to my phone ping half a dozen times in a 2 minute period because everyone else is responding to the sender, and being part of the group, it is assumed that I give a crap about what everyone else thinks. "Text me back or you are not my friend..." What is this? Third grade? Here's a thought....Friends don't send friends stupid group texts!"
So, about now, dear reader, you are saying, just delete it and unjoin the thread. I have enough threads in my life that I should not HAVE to unjoin something that I did not join in the first place. There are times that group texts are easier for sharing things. At work, Everyone gets a daily sales report group texted to them. Fine. Necessary and expected. But when someone asked a question on that thread and everyone starts answering it's a pain in the ass. ding...ding...dingdingdingding....
It's part of life, can't be avoided, so, feel free to group text all you want, but don't feel bad if I don't reply.
While we are on the subject of annoying text messages, What is up with all this invasive advertising on your phone now? I can't go to Walmart, Home Depot, Bed Bath and Beyond or even McDonalds without my phone pinging, and a text ad saying you are at Walmart...look at these specials...Again, I could shut off my location access but WHY SHOULD I HAVE TO DO THAT??? Any thoughts? We will address this at another time.
Have a great day.
Tuesday, October 25, 2016
Would love to hear yours too!
Do you voice text? You know, when you talk to your phone and it puts it all down...then you don't check it before you hit send and the person on the other end gets something like...
You are in the clam before the storm...
Let your light be a bacon for all...
If you are important, you should look impotent
...with libraries and justice for all
...Let not your fart be troubled...
I have sent all of these... As I have mentioned before, we are all victims of tech. Share a few zingers with me today, and root for the Cubs to win the World Serious.....
Friday, October 21, 2016
Cyber attacks, computer crashes, NO NETFLIX???
So, I guess there was some Cyber attack that took out the east coast's twitter, Nextflix (oh no) and other stuff we need to communicate to others what we had for breakfast. We all know what is coming down the road. It will effect your T.V., cell phone, car, computer, ipad, router, camera, ...anything that has a processor. Here is the news story, I will meet you at the end of it................
US Internet Repeatedly Disrupted by Cyberattacks on Key Firm
- By RAPHAEL SATTER AND FRANK BAJAK, AP WRITERS
Cyberattacks on a key internet firm repeatedly disrupted the availability of popular websites across the United States Friday, according to analysts and company officials. The White Housedescribed the disruption as malicious. Members of a hacker group spread across China and Russia claimed responsibility, although their assertion couldn't be verified.
Manchester, New Hampshire-based Dyn Inc. said its server infrastructure was hit by distributed denial-of-service attacks, which work by overwhelming targeted machines with junk data traffic. The attack had knock-on effects for users trying to access popular websites from across America and even in Europe, affecting sites such as Twitter, Netflix and PayPal.
BROAD EFFECTS
The level of disruption was difficult to gauge, but Dyn provides internet traffic management and optimization services to some of the biggest names on the web, including Twitter, Netflix and Visa. Critically, Dyn provides domain name services, which translate the human-readable addresses such as "twitter.com" into an online route for browsers and applications.
Steve Grobman, chief technology officer at Intel Security, compared an outage at a domain name services company to tearing up a map or turning off GPS before driving to the department store. "It doesn't matter that the store is fully open or operational if you have no idea how to get there," he said in a telephone interview.
Jason Read, founder of the internet performance monitoring firm CloudHarmony, owned by Gartner Inc., said his company tracked a half-hour-long disruption early Friday in which roughly one in two end users would have found it impossible to access various websites from the East Coast. A second attack later in the day caused disruption to the East and West Coasts as well as impacting some users in Europe.
"It's been pretty busy for those guys," Read said. "We've been monitoring Dyn for years and this is by far the worst outage event that we've observed."
Read said Dyn provides services to some 6 percent of America's Fortune 500 companies. "It impacted quite a few users," he said of the morning's attack. A full list of affected companies wasn't immediately available, but Twitter, Netflix, PayPal and the coder hangout Github said they briefly experienced problems earlier Friday.
HACKERS CLAIM RESPONSIBILITY
Members of a shadowy hacker collective that calls itself New World Hackers claimed responsibility for the attack via Twitter. They said they organized networks of connected "zombie" computers that threw a staggering 1.2 terabits per second of data at the Dyn-managed servers.
"We didn't do this to attract federal agents, only test power," two collective members who identified themselves as "Prophet" and "Zain" told an AP reporter via Twitter direct message exchange. They said more than 10 member participated in the attack. It was not immediately possible to verify the claim.
Dyn officials said they did not know who was behind the attacks or if they were orchestrated by a state-backed group or online activists or pranksters. They said they have received no claim of responsibility, but are working with law enforcement.
The collective, @NewWorldHacking on Twitter, has in the past claimed responsibility for similar attacks against sites including ESPNFantasySports.com in September and the BBC on Dec. 31. The attack on the BBC marshalled half the computing power of Friday's onslaught.
The collective has also claimed responsibility for cyberattacks against Islamic State. The two said about 30 people have access to the @NewWorkdHacking Twitter account. They said 20 are in Russia and 10 in China. "Prophet" said he is in India. "Zain" said he is in China. The two claimed to be taking "good actions."
Another collective member the AP previously communicated with via direct message called himself "Ownz" and identified himself as a 19-year-old in London. He told the AP that the group — or at least he — sought through hacking only to expose security vulnerabilities.
During the attack on the ESPN site, "Ownz" was asked if the collective made any demands on sites it attacked, such as demanding blackmail money. "We will make one demand actually.. Secure your website and get better servers, otherwise be attacked again," he said.
THE VULNERABLE INTERNET
For James Norton, the former deputy secretary at the Department of Homeland Security who now teaches on cybersecurity policy at Johns Hopkins University, the incident was an example of how attacks on key junctures in the network can yield massive disruption.
"I think you can see how fragile the internet network actually is," he said.
Dyn officials said attacks stemmed from tens of millions of devices connected to the internet — closed-circuit video cameras, digital video recorders and even thermostats — that were infected with malware. Attacks came in waves and from IP addresses from around the world, shifting geographically.
Dyn first became aware of an attack around 7:00 a.m. local time, focused on data centers on the East Coast of the U.S. Services were restored about two hours later. But then attackers shifted to offshore data centers, and the latest wave of problems continued until Friday evening Eastern time.
"It is a very smart attack. As we start to mitigate they react and start to throw something that's over the top," Kyle York, chief strategy officer of Dyn, on a call with reporters.
The U.S. Department of Homeland Security is monitoring the situation, White House spokesman Josh Earnest told reporters Friday. He said he had no information about who may be behind the disruption.
Security experts have recently expressed concern over increasing power of denial-of-service attacks following high-profile electronic assaults against investigative journalist Brian Krebsand French internet service provider OVH .
In a widely shared essay titled "Someone Is Learning How to Take Down the Internet," respected security expert Bruce Schneier said last month that major internet infrastructure companies were seeing a series of worrying denial-of-service attacks.
"Someone is extensively testing the core defensive capabilities of the companies that provide critical internet services," he said.
So, the thing I worry about is stuff like Medical records, sales transactions, pay pal, credit cards and especially my bank accounts. You see, you only have in the bank what the computer SAYS you have in the bank. I know there are back ups and back ups for the back ups, but still...I worry about the day you walk into the bank and they tell you that you have 0 in your account when you know there is several thousand in there. You're all of a sudden broke because the bank says you are. Now, that said, they will be able to (I hope) trace your account and straighten it out...a day? A week? A Month? EVER?
My advise, and take this for what it is worth, I only keep a minimum in the bank. Get a safe, a mattress, whatever. Buy Gold, (a gram at a time as currency grade, ie: Karatbars International) as gold has never been worth nothing. I try to have 10% of my income net worth in Gold. (Do not get a safe deposit box. If your bank shuts it's doors, you, my friend are S.O.L.)
Don't get me wrong. I am not a doomsdayer, nor am I a fear monger. I am pretty computer savvy, and if it all hits the fan, you should be ready to be mobile. Cash and Gold will go a long way.
I am reminded of the movie, The Postman. I think of all the post apocalyptic movies out there, that The Postman is probably pretty close to the way it will be. So, like I said, take it all for what it's worth. If you disagree with me, cool. No worries. Just remember.....Soylent Green is...Never mind. Have a great day. Change your passwords 4 times a year and make sure your firewall is working. Cheers.
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