"No one is perfect". How many times have we heard this or even used it as an excuse for lack of knowledge or experience?
The whole perfection thing is a lot of pressure. We are raised to be the best we can be. That is WAYYYY different than being perfect.
You don't have to be perfect. Perfection is a illusion. It's unattainable. It's a unicorn. Great to imagine, but in real life, it's still a horse with a horn glued to its head.
However, there is a way, somewhat Taoist to look at this. If you have have imperfections, and those imperfections make up the person you are, then it would only fit that you are perfect in your imperfection. You are the perfect you.
We are hit from all sides with media and peer pressure to look a certain way, or dress with a certain style, or have a perfect hair style yadda yadda yadda.....It tends to make one very self conscious about one's self. You hear the horror stories every day. Young kids turning to drugs, self mutilation, depression, isolationism, suicide...all for what? Because they don't fit in with the latest trend.
True, some people are genetically predisposed to "good looks" or "athleticism" or brilliance...and some are not as attractive, or strong or smart. Nature will always balance. Yes, it has been proven that mates tend to gravitate toward the strongest of the herd. Or the prettiest..(example Bird of Paradise). In nature, this is for survival of the species. Humans do not have that problem. We get together, hang out, have sex with each other and boom....on goes the species. And yes, sometime alcohol is involved that makes you pair up with someone that for whatever reason you would not normally pair up with.
Point is, there is someone for everyone. What I find unattractive in someone, the next person with see as the one they have been looking for all their life...perfect in their imperfections. A lot of "imperfection" has to do with self image. We all can do things to make changes in what we see as faults in ourselves. All good. Make those changes. Embrace those changes. But, be sure you are doing it for the right reason. You can not be beautiful to others until you are beautiful to yourself. You can only love others when you love yourself first. Embrace your imperfections and love them. Life is a wonderful thing once you realize that you don't have to be a clone on the model on TV who is pushing the latest "make yourself perfect" product. Just be the best you that you can be.
Have an "imperfect" day!